Embracing Change
Jul 10, 2025
hey friend,
I can't believe i haven't said hi since christmas…
and the above picture is from 2015 maybe?
i guess that's what happens when you throw yourself into the biggest, greatest expression of your life at 47.
just last week we went from 16 horses to 24.
we are a rescue with 24 horses now. can't turn back from this one. whew…
and…. we. are. rural.
my closest anything is 15 minutes away and it's a gas station that pretends to be a small grocery store. talk about extreme from the center of dallas.
i miss the energy of the city.
jeff and i have vowed to go back once a month and take in the energy.
and then we get to leave and come back to nature.
it's just enough.
i've probably gained 15 pounds in the last year.
don't workout other than farm chores.
and let's not even talk about what my food intake looks like.
fried, fried, and more fried for days…
this is all changing (it has too) and you'll get to see it on the socials soon.
i'm loving observing myself trying to keep up with it all.
and the constant nag of perfectionism?
it still tries to control me. (it's not winning, finally).
this is growth.
here's a little of what's going on in my world as far as business:
human design has picked up in a big way. i've been doing multiple readings every week and it's been just enough to figure out, this is not how i serve myself or you best. i took down the 1:1 option yesterday along with a masterclass i was doing in a couple of weeks.
i'm not lit up by it.
and to push through that…despite, would be going against my design. can you imagine me teaching on something while actively not practicing it? not for me.
i've decided to only offer voxer coaching sessions for those that want a more in-depth HD experience. i'm designed to respond. and nothing would make me happier than to be out in the field with horses, listening to you talk, and me give you my feedback as it relates to how you can show up best for yourself, your partner, fam, those you love the most, and that j. o. b.
if this sparks your interest, make sure you're on my email list. i'll be sending out an email soon with a link where you can learn all about it.
lastly, and i'll make this quick because this has been a long one…
i was recently humbled by a “never” i threw out both publicly and privately.
have you ever done that? said the “never” then were humbled by it?
i know what you're thinking…"they say never say never, miquell…" yep. heard that years ago…and to make things worse when i said “never” publicly i even said…"they say never say never…but i'm telling you this will “never” happen again."
yep. that's how humbling this “never” is to me right now.
when will i learn…
so what is it?
“i recently joined a ground-breaking opportunity with a health and wellness company and i think you'd be a great fit…”
gross…did you feel the constriction in your body when you read that? i felt it in mine. and this is the very reason why i can't stand mlm companies…
in all seriousness, i watched another mlm company, about three months ago, completely trash the people who built them to what they were. how do these investors and corporate peeps do this to people? it's beyond me and i've watched it over and over again.
in case you are new to my world, just know in the past i've been really good at joining mlm companies, hitting top ranks super fast, and then burning out.
also, observing the way mlm people hop from one company to the next has been a massive turn-off for me and honestly reminded me of my unhealthy church experiences.
doesn't fit you? somebody did something you didn't like? go find a bigger, better opportunity/product/church…rinse and repeat.
i can't stand it.
so imagine my surprise when i'm watching the drama of an mlm crash, people's lives destroyed one day before their monthly paycheck, those same people hopping to other companies really quick to pay their bills and fund a lifestyle they were accustomed to living, and then hearing about a company i'd never heard about in my entire mlm experience.
i watched this company for a week, observed the “onboarding calls”, and heard from the ceo. i'm not gonna lie, the ceo…the history of his family…i found quite fascinating and intriguing…but i quickly smelled the old scent of mlm from all the meetings.
insert human design…i was being lit up by something about this company.
what? are you kidding me? nope. nope. hell to the no. never…i said never.
when i ran it by jeff, he was like, “miquell, my parents were a part of that company when i was a kid.”
you know the surprise emoji face we all use in our texting? ๐ณ
that was my face.
that means this company is old…(sorry mother-in-law).
and it is…been around since 1956. not too “ground-breaking” of an opportunity. ๐
after reminding myself to trust my gut, i purchased the product.
and you guessed it…i'm obsessed.
mlm products have never been my issue. the people have.
after having direct conversations with the beautiful human that introduced me to this company through her socials, trying the products out for over three months, i've decided to jump in. and here's what that means:
i am not building an mlm business.
i am not building a team.
i am not getting in with the “who's who” of the social construct.
i am sharing amazing products that are making this 47 year old feel and look amazing.
i'm focusing on my skin, collagen production, and protein intake while incorporating my love for proper nutrition, adequate water consumption, and exercise into this.
when you fall in love with the products like i have, fantastic…enjoy them.
want to share it with your network? i'll share with you what i'm doing, how i market myself around it, and walk you through the process in voxer.
but i be damned if i commit to weekly team meetings, cold and warm reach outs, follow-ups, and the gross attempts that desperate, uneducated, unmarketable people pursue. it's not for me.
i'm a self-started. self-educated. self-led.
and if that's you, and you love the products like me? great.
but i will not hold your hand through this.
i have horses to rescue from slaughter, have found a product that will help pay these horse bills, and i'm sharing it.
if you want to check it out, click the link below.
if you have questions, hop on IG and send me a dm.
thanks for coming to my ted talk today.
you'll hear from me tomorrow with the HD stuff.
and let's hope i don't wait another 7 months to give you an update because this blog has been entirely too long…
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i love you-
M